Becoming a cop is not an easy task, nor should it be an easy decision. In fact, becoming a cop is a bad choice if you are simply looking for a “job”.
Police work changes your life. It becomes a way of life. Police work is a mindset. It is about overcoming fear and learning how to react. It is about responding peacefully, yet forcefully, in the face of extreme danger. It is about doing things that other people cannot do. It is about seeing things that others never wish to see. It is about survival.
Make no mistake. Police work can be intensely rewarding – but it can be equally stressful. It can make your life meaningful, or it can destroy you. Success means learning how to achieve balance between the two.
More than anything else, becoming a cop means accepting a sense of duty and commitment to something larger than one’s self. And with that duty comes a profound sense of responsibility both to yourself and to your community. Are you willing to risk your own life to protect others?
Police work is not a one hour drama. It is serious. And yet, ironically, if you are serious about becoming a cop, inherently you already know it.
Regardless of your personal commitment to becoming a cop, the magnitude of that decision is overwhelming. Despite all your good intentions, you need to test them with reality. Here are a few tips to get you started.
First, contact your local police departments and inquire about their “ride-along” programs. These programs allow citizens to accompany a patrol officer on a duty shift. Not only will the program enable you to experience what becoming a cop really is, it will also provide you with the opportunity to become familiar with local patrol officers.
Use that opportunity to ask your “partner” about the job. Plus, you can find out firsthand what qualifications the department considers important. Ask pertinent questions. More than likely, the officer(s) will respond positively, and will respect you for being serious enough not only to ask intelligent questions, but also for demonstrating the courage to participating in a ride-along. If you feel compelled to sign up for a second “ride-along”, by all means do so. You’re about to make a very serious, life-changing decision.
Second, take what you’ve learned in your “ride-alongs” and ask yourself some serious questions. Can you really take the stress? Could you fire a gun to protect life? Could you devote your life to something admittedly larger than yourself?
Third, if you can honestly answer those questions to the point where you are ready to move on – consider your family. Parents – rightly so – will have valid concerns. Can you deal with the stress of the job as well as the family pressures?
Are you married? Becoming a cop is a decision that cannot be made in a vacuum. Police work will change your life – and your spouse’s. Can you both handle it?
What about your children – present or future? How well can you deal with the possibility that your profession could take you away from them … forever?
Under all conditions, becoming a cop is a permanent decision. Before you make that decision, consider how it will change your life. If you and your family are ready, you will know, instinctively. In fact, those instincts will drive you to become the cop you want to be – committed, and without fear of regret.
Becoming a Cop provides the solid advice that you need to succeed not only in achieving that coveted police job, but also how to prosper once you’re there.



